No one wins in divorce. There are no trophies. No “beating” your ex. There is only resolution. The court does not care who was the better spouse. It cares about fairness. And if you have children - welfare. You will not get everything you want. You will have to compromise. Even if you feel wronged. That is not pessimism. It is reality. And the sooner you understand that, the more power you regain. Because divorce becomes expensive when it’s fuelled by ego…and manageable when it’s fuelled by stra