How to Shape & Manage Your Young Child’s Behavior - As a Karen family, it can be hard to manage our children behavior in the U.S because we grew up learning differently. Parents have so many question on how to help their children with their behavior. - Children learn by watching everyone around them, especially their parents. When you use manners and good coping strategies, you teach your children to do the same. - Children often feel that they are the only ones who have to "use your manners," "